tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6258179022176583574.post2284267129425480039..comments2023-10-11T08:40:06.487-07:00Comments on We Plan, God Laughs: and more...StephanieChttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11829385648569954260noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6258179022176583574.post-57983688115824641692010-12-17T07:26:17.944-08:002010-12-17T07:26:17.944-08:00Interesting-- I didn't actually think about it...Interesting-- I didn't actually think about it that way, that he's trying to show he's not going to take his mom's side over mine. You're right-- Probably not a lot of guys would do that.<br /><br />I have said to him over and over again that I want him to have a good relationship with his parents. Last week when I was mad at his mom and we originally had plans to go to their house, and I didn't want to at that point, I encouraged him to go without me.StephanieChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11829385648569954260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6258179022176583574.post-88962817456672659662010-12-17T05:50:11.228-08:002010-12-17T05:50:11.228-08:00It sounds like what he is doing is trying to make ...It sounds like what he is doing is trying to make it very clear that he is siding with you, as his future wife, and that he is not going to take his mom's side over yours. <br /><br />He is awesome. Not all spouses do that. <br /><br />The best thing for you to do is to make it so that he doesn't have to choose sides--but it's probably going to be up to Darth, not you, to accept things and relax and move on.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com