At what point should I disclose I have a blog to Jedi?
I don't know that I should disclose at all.
On the one hand, if I had a diary it would be none of his business. And that's essentially what this blog is-- sort of a dating diary.
On the other hand... it's public. This wouldn't be an issue if only anonymous people read this, but I know some people who know Jedi offline read this. And maybe he wouldn't be too thrilled about that, though I do think I write mostly innocuous things about him.
I also think that telling him would have the effect of ending the blog (or at least ending honest writing about HIM... which, since he's the only one I'm currently seeing, would have that same effect.)
I don't think he'd be bothered by the blog--not really. But I do think he would bug me until I gave him the URL, which would mean measuring what I say about him a bit more.
On the other other hand, depending on how long this goes, he could end up being hurt that I didn't tell him about it.
So. What say you, internets? To tell, or not to tell?